Any hair advice out there?

I’ve got a problem right now with fuck hair. You know, the tangled mess at the back of your head when you spend too much on your back getting fucked? Oh yes, it’s a problem for me. My hair is long and pretty coarse (those damn grey hairs!) – long enough that I have to tie it back at night otherwise it wraps around my neck. I just use crap loads of argan oil and conditioner to smooth it out, but any preventative measures would be greatly appreciated!