Embrace your inner kink

Now that Maestro and I are open to requests for custom videos, I’m learning so much more about people and their kinks. And it’s a wonderful thing. There’s a lot of misconceptions about porn out there. Believe me, I’ve read the news. It’s ruining relationships. It’s setting unrealistic expectations about the human body and what’s desirable and sexy. People are becoming addicted to porn. I don’t doubt that some of it is true, especially as a consumer of some of the high quality professional porn out there.

But the amateur sites of which Maestro and I are members are showing me a different side. There’s more interaction between the buyers and sellers and it creates a community of people who use it as a way to express their sexuality. I’m sure a lot of the sellers, like us, are exhibitionists. We like it when people watch, and having people throw a few bucks our way to do is just … well … lunch money. Enough to buy some sexy outfits. Being able to request custom videos too gives people a way to express their kinks and fantasies and use the open market to find those willing to accommodate.

And people have all sorts of fantasies! Particular clothing, parts of the body, dialogue, age … you name it, I’ve seen it requested. And I think it’s cool and healthy to express one’s fantasies and even better that there’s safe places to connect with others.