The keys to happy hair

No – this isn’t recommendations for shampoo and conditioner. I asked Maestro to pull my hair when I was just discovering kinky side. I’d never asked anyone to pull my hair before. Never. But now it’s one of those activities in the BDSM bucket, along with spanking, biting, wearing a collar & chain and cum control that appeals to me. It’s not like we roll through all of these activities every time we fuck. We often have satisfying fucks without any of that, but when I want to be dominated, pushed around and have a good rough fuck, hair pulling is part of the action.

He never pulls hard enough to actually pull hair out. I’d never go for that since menopause is taking care of thinning and hair loss without any help! There’s a technique for it. (We learned some of this from Desiree way back in the spring before she ditched us.) You grab at the back of the head closer to the scalp at the roots, not at the ends. Best technique is to reach up from the neck at the base of the skull, grab and pull. Straight back is best. Not quick short yanks. I prefer a longer slower grab, pull (accompanied by liberal dirty talk) and release. If you yank at an angle you could pull a muscle and injure your neck.

I’ll sometimes grab Maestro’s hair. Not pull it, but just wrap my fingers in his curls for something to hold on to. Plus his hair is super soft and feels lovely. This isn’t a kinky thing, it’s a romance stare-into-his-eyes and stroke his hair thing.

Sometimes kinky hair pulling feels like a good scalp massage, which can actually can help stimulate hair growth. So it has a couple of therapeutic benefits for me – stimulates my hair follicles and orgasms. Healthy hair and happy pussy!