New to anal? Give this a try!
My favourite toy lately has been my trusty anal beads. I bought it years ago, I think as part of an anal starter kit for women that included a flogger and lube. I was with my close friend who dragged me into a store to find a dildo with a suction on it. I wasn’t looking for anything in particular and wasn’t totally comfortable with friends knowing about my anal play. But I saw the kit hanging on a wall and the clerk, a young bespeckled man with bright ginger hair, pulled it down immediately for me. “This is one of most popular kits. A lot of people love it.” He showed me the size of the beads through the hard plastic cover and explained, “See, the smallest one is just about the diameter of your pinky. So you can start really small and increase to the largest one – that’s between the size of a quarter and a loonie – whenever you want.” As my friend perused the fat sturdy dildos, I let him continue his sales job. “The key too starting with anal too is a good lube. And lots of it. You can never use enough lube, right? Especially with anal,” he laughed. “It’s saved me soooo many times,” he whispered as he led me to the lube section of the store near the cash. “The one in the kit is pretty good, but definitely get this brand too. Sound good?” He rung up my purchase and had it in a discreet paper bag before he went to search for the perfect dildo for my friend.
As recommended, the first time I used it I covered the first three beads in lube and put a big dollop on my asshole as well, working around and in just slightly with my forefinger. The first bead doesn’t feel much bigger than a pinky, but it’s not about the first one. Things get fun with the second and third bead. What’s stimulating about anal beads isn’t the size for me, it’s not about stretching my asshole out. It’s the sensation of pushing even three beads inside, then slowly pulling them out, and having my asshole open and close. So that’s where the length comes into play more than the size. Even though the largest bead is no more than the diameter of a loonie, it’s the 8th bead, which means 8 times my asshole stretches a bit to accept a bead. And then 8 times to push the beads out.
Even though my asshole is bigger now than when I first used it, the stimulation from inserting and withdrawing the beads still gets me to cum fast. I experiment now with pushing them in and pulling them out faster. And pulling back and forth with just the three largest beads. But it’s not like I’ve outgrown my beads. I just discover new ways to play with them. I always played solo with them until I met Maestro. Now we play with them while he’s fucking me. We usually wait until he’s been fucking my pussy for a while so I’m nice and wet and halfway to orgasm. Then insert the beads.
So why this particular brand? For starters, I like the colour. I admit it. I like the feminine purple. But the bright colour also means it’s easy to find in bed. I swear that’s why I like my toys in purples and pinks, and not neutral colours. It travels well, it’s durable, and it’s easy to hang on to. Let’s face it, durability and ergonomics are important factors in sex toys. You want them to last a long time, and if you use them a lot (which I have at times), you don’t want repetitive use injuries from masturbation. As I discovered years ago, that’s an interesting conversation to have with your physiotherapist. She seemed to think my injury was consistent with tennis elbow and I let her believe that.
The ring at the end is just the right size. It’s not too big that it gets in the way from playing with my pussy, and yet big enough that I’m not worried about it getting pushed inside my ass as well. And when Maestro’s cock is in my pussy and he’s pulling the beads oh so slowly out of my ass … it’s making me cum just thinking about it!
I highly recommend them. Classic anal beads will never let you down.
