Temptation

“Thoughts from above hit the people down below
People in this world, we have no place to go”

Since I’ve started having threesomes with Maestro and playing on the edges of the kink community, I’ve experienced how valuable it is to have people with whom to share your experiences and to be honest about how you’re feeling. I’ve got Maestro for that, and I’m eternally grateful to be walking this path with him as my lover and best friend. It’s been bumpy with unexpected turns, but I wouldn’t trade in the experience for anything.

Last night we went to a kink/fetish party. Not just a sex club, which we’ve tried three times now, but one that really enforced a kink dress code. It didn’t have as much space for public sex, but had shibari demonstrations, a dominatrix and spanking benches. The vibe for me was much better, like I had found the people and the place for me to further explore my kinky side. It felt so natural to be hanging around all that PVC, chains and leather and the people were friendlier too. I started out the evening by watching a woman in leather pants getting spanked by a dominatrix, Mistress Mysterious. You had to spin a wheel to determine what sort of punishment she would dole out – everything from caning and flogging to nipple torture and human pinata. Maestro convinced me to give it a try and I landed on caning. Mistress picked out a wooden spoon and had me lean over the spanking bench. She started with a warmup, just with her hand. And oooohhh, that hurt. Just the warmup! I lasted about 4 sets, the first 3 increasingly harder. By the third set, I told her it was hard enough. She spanked me a bit harder than Maestro ever has and combined with the club music, Mistress Mysterious and having strangers watch me – I was fully turned out. I realized after that I really love a good hard spank now and then.

We watched a bit longer as more people spun the wheel and received their punishment. Afterwards, the conversation was so natural. Oh – how did you enjoy your spanking? Have you been punished by Mistress before? What other kinds of kink are you into? It was refreshing to have those interesting conversations that wouldn’t normally occur at any club. As another guy told Maestro – most clubs are sex clubs but here, we’re just up front about it. We also watched a rope top suspend a woman. I think Maestro’s knot work is more beautiful, but the suspension was cool to see.

The costumes were also an easy conversation starter. One guy was dressed up in a full California Highway Patrol uniform – just like CHiPs. (Yes, only middle-agers like me may remember that show …) So yeah, I’ve definitely got a thing for men in uniform. I knew that after working with the military, but seeing a uniform in the context of a sex club was a bit of a game changer for me. I had to tell the guy later his uniform had me thinking about my Ponch and Jon fantasies as a horny teenager. I’m going to get Maestro a military uniform now. The thought of him punishing me in uniform is making me incredibly horny …